Yes, I know what you are thinking. "So what?" or "Geez, take her to the psychiatric ward NOW!", but let me explain myself first.
Lately I've been reading... in such a carefree way (when I read for others - I haven't been reading for myself). I'm not sure if it's because I've been going through one of the most difficult times of my life... and suddenly doing "perfect" readings just doesn't matter so much any more. I don't care so much for accuracy. The message works in mysterious ways, doesn't it?
So I just read. What I see in the cards.
I don't look for meaning clues in the images any more, like I used to. I don't fret trying to remember every book I have read on the subject. Or trying to make astrological/mythological associations - these things come to me naturally if they have to. I see the image, and suddenly it tells me something. And it makes sense. It tells a story, and I can listen to it.
I know many people have been doing it for a long time, but it's totally new to me. Only I know how much I have tormented myself because I had "no intuition whatsoever", and i'm not sure if this is intuition, but it's different. I'm not suddenly filled with confidence, but I'm suddenly not so worried about reading and getting it right or wrong. And it's... freeing.
Some decks are better for this than others. Some decks will immediately tell me their wordless story, while others will make think "book-book-book-book". So I've been trying to stick to the ones who will talk for themselves, at least for the time being, like the Mythic Tarot and the Playing Card Oracles, my favorite oracle deck ever.
I'm not sure where this is taking me, but it's a silver lining in these dark days. I'm trying to enjoy the ride.
I always thought that breakthrough came with bells and fireworks and the best times of our lives, not when we are about to hit rock bottom... life remains a mystery.