I have been meditating about the influences surrounding me in this moment. I began to notice that one of the most damaging influences I have to deal with in my life is cynicism. I don't mind scepticism, because it helps us to question, to think for ourselves instead of blindly following the mass. But cynicism can be destructive... all the people that I know who have been bitten by this bug (and some of them are very close to me), became very dry on the inside. Surely, they have a very active mental and physical life, but they lack something. Even their emotional side sometimes seems to be stilted, because emotions require you to dive and cynics are always afraid to drown.
I saddens me that many of these people, while having a good nature, often feel the need to try to prove you that their point of view is correct. Some of them can be quite active in doing this, behaving like some sort of missionary, and others will do that passively, simply showing their contempt for you. They are the kinds that will say "God/Astrology/Tarot/Divination/UFO/etc. is bullshit" without ever trying to understand what any of these things are. They are just happy to tread on other people's beliefs, because nowadays this is a sign of superior intellect.
But is it?
I don't know. I once had a boyfriend who openly told me he considered me mentally inferior to him, for believing in tarot and for being a woman. I am often treated with contempt by the people around me who do not understand what I do, and are not interested in learning. I find nothing superior about any of these attitudes, but I endure them. Yes, I can accept cynicism (it is a way of living, after all), but no, I cannot thrive in it.
So I asked my Grail Tarot about what can I do to not let cynicism influence me so strongly. The first card, that is the answer to my question, was Prester John (The Hermit). The second card, which is the qualifier of the answer, was Sheba (The Empress).
The first card is very direct... in order to avoid being so affected by the cynicism around me, I will have to isolate myself a bit, or at least part of me. The most sensitive part - the mystic soul. It tells me to observe others, and not jump so quickly to defend myself or my point of view. I have nothing to prove who people who will not accept any proofs. Sheba confirms that I'll find growth in this quiet isolation. Both cards also seem to suggest some sort of retreat, perhaps in nature. I need to be alone to find my inner truth, one that can stand against the pointing fingers.
I should not need the approval of other to believe in what I do. I should not need their approval to live by these beliefs, specially since the don't harm anyone. I may have to learn the art of disentanglement.
The Grail Tarot © REDFeather, John Matthews & Giovanni Caselli